Today is my birthday and i am getting many notes on fb because of it. It bothers me that so many of my site members are posting notes to me on fb and not our site. The simple reason: fb sends notices to members about upcoming birthdays, every sunday, and i think extra messages that day. While i could care less about people sending me simple notes, people who don't know me, i do care that my site members are using fb rather than our site. 

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I know how you feel my friend. I use AS to share pictures and Videos with my family. However, all discussion happen on fb. It kinda hurts when your family members do that to you.