I am trying to edit the Pending Friend Request email template.

The default is:
[DISPLAYNAME] has added you as a friend. Please confirm that you know [DISPLAYNAME] in order for you to be friends.

Follow the link below to confirm this request.
[NOTIFICATIONSLINK]As you can see there is no mention of the personal message you can type when befriending someone. However, when I do send a message it comes through on the email.

So now I have edited my template and I no longer get personal messages. What is the token or is it attaching it onto the message without a token or something? How do I get personal messages back on friend requests?